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Thanks, I missed that and fixed it.

Apparently that is not my problem with CB not allowing me to add fields.

I am getting, "direct access to this location is not allowed". Why can't I figure this out? Frustrating...

Maybe it is a wrong or missing ItemID in the menu link? For uddeIM you will find some information about that in the FAQ.

checked, no luck.

I also have a problem when I click on "Show users" when I want to send a message with my Jdefender saying..

"The action was Stopped
The Action was stopped bacause of suspicion on PHP injection attack.
The values that led to the stopping are backto = www.mysite.com/send-message?task=inbox.

If you believe that you did not do anything wrong you can contact the System Administrator via email
In any case the administrator will be informed of this event. "

That unlock that user from the site so I dont know what to do.

Believing its a php injection attack. This is the only component I have problem with..

Why do you guys use such broken software?

There is nothing wrong with the backlink uddeIM uses. When the userlist is selected uddeIM has to refresh the screen and redirects to itself. Deinstall Jdefender which seems to be broken and everthing works fine.