i have over 3,000 connections every time a new one comes in and i accept i try to accept it the browser crashes "ie" i think its because on the other manage connection tab it downloads all 3500 members as if i want to manage them at that point. i was wondering if there was a way to stop this happening???

or at least limit the number of peopl in the manage connections tab to just the user i just added.

i tried this but no joy .. could you point out the sql statement i need to add the limit to as i have tried all of them