I have been searching for days trying to find a solution to have bad words/swear words and email addresses filtered so that users cannot PM such things to eachother.. is there a possible option for this?? or at least is there a way I can use some sort of code in the bbparser.php that will allow me to do this? I`m not so great with php but attempted to add such a filter in with no success so far.

Isn't uddeIM a PMS (Private Messaging System)?

not useful Theo.... if adding links can be disabled then so should certain words.. its not impossible...