1. I cannot hide/show (music/video/file/photos options)via plugin parameters

They're not disabled/enabled in plugin parameters. They're disabled/enabled in the individual tabs.

2. If i change the acl priveleges via plugin ..for example set video and photo create rights to special...my basic registered user can still upload photos/video

CB Moderators are exempt from that parameter. Please navigate to CB > Configuration > Moderation and ensure all of your users are not set to be moderators by mistake. The moderator view access level should be something strict like administrators or super users.

3. If i disable the display of for example...disable video/file from cb gallery tab it will display after i set them to no

There is a tab per gallery. Each gallery tab can display all of the galleries. You need to configure them individually as necessary. If you want all the galleries under a single tab then disable all the tabs except 1 then in that 1 tab enable the other gallery displays. Aside from that I don't understand your issue, sorry.

I believe for issues 1,2,3 i was using one of the gallery tabs to display file/audio/video/images in the same tab and then the plugins parameters would not control the acl but when i shown only music in the music tab and video in the video tab..ect then acl was working along with the ability to show and hide the other file/audio/video/photo tabs which i was not able to when i set one to display all..

All of the tab parameters are tab by tab specific. If you set all of them to display under 1 tab then you control all of their parameters under that 1 tab. You don't control Files exclusively on the Files tab. There are parameters for each gallery under each tab. The ACL is not tab specific. It's global and affects all of the tabs so it doesn't matter if you use a single tab or multiple; it's all the same code.

4. I have the cb profile gallery parameter set to enabled in side of the activity plugin and for some reason the activity tab/module will not post any updates for gallery entries...are gallery entries supported as an entry in the activity feed as displayed in the parameters in the activity feed plugin?...the activity does show other feeds like profile updates, logins ect..

CB Gallery does not work with CB Activity. CB Activity is currently being rewritten.

5..Just refreshing the profile page after making a wall post will generate a duplicate entry in the activity tab/module...so i have basically refreshed the page three times and the activity tab/module will display the post i just made 3 times in a row..but it only displays once on the wall...any ideas how to prevent multiple posts to activity wall?.

I don't know what activity you're referring to. CB Gallery does not integrate with CB Activity at this time. It has no activity logging feature. If you mean CB Profile Gallery then I suppose that could be a bug in that plugin, which is officially replaced by CB Gallery.

6. Not sure if this is related but i have another open forum post where im having an issue with the audio field now allowing mp3 file format uploads..but the mp3 file uploads perfectly in the gallery tab..i really would like to be able to display mp3 via field if possible.

That was referring to a bug with the audio field and not CB Gallery. The audio field is fixed in next CB release.

7. Clicking play on a video in list column will play for 2 seconds then automatically redirect to the users profile...can i prevent the redirect and just play the video?

That'd be a bug in the video field and has nothing to do with CB Gallery. I've added a bug ticket for this as follows.

forge.joomlapolis.com/issues/5254

Heres what i was referring to when i said cb activity was reposting the activity on page refresh listed as #5 in my previous post..

That's because CB ProfileBook posts to its self, which is the profile page. It has no specific triggers for it to act on so it has to act on a profile view trigger and get its information from that. Refreshing the page will result in the form posting again, which results in the activity storing again. There's no fix for this as CB ProfileBook just lacks the triggers to properly handle this. This won't be an issue with CB Activity rewrite as it won't be logging activity at all and instead plugins will need to use CB Activity API to log activity.

also im having some trouble with the buttons and having a hart time locating all of the css code....its obviously a setting with my own template but i cannot seem to find the correct css to override the button after hover/hover click..and button.success is not working
Do you have any suggestions so that i dont have to spend too much more time digging..thanks

Your Joomla template is styling button inputs. Contact the developer of your template or right click and inspect element in Chrome or Firefox to review the button CSS.

Please avoid putting so many issues into 1 topic. This is getting significantly more and more off topic and making it difficult to follow your issue.