You're wanting to move the Add Connection link to a different location other then CB Menu? To do this you'll need to use the following code to allow for the pop-up message box
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<a name="cbAddConn" onclick="return overlib('Personalize your invitation to connect by adding a message that will be included with your connection.<br /><form action="index.php?option=com_comprofiler&Itemid=2&act=connections&task=addConnection&connectionid=[user_id]" method="post" id="connOverForm" name="connOverForm">Message:<br /><textarea cols="40" rows="8" name="message"></textarea><br /><input type="button" class="inputbox" onclick="cbConnSubmReq();" value="Submit" /> <input type="button" class="inputbox" onclick="cClick();" value="Cancel" /></form>', STICKY, CAPTION,'Connect to demouser2', CENTER,CLOSECLICK,CLOSETEXT,'CLOSE',WIDTH,350, ANCHOR,'cbAddConn',CENTERPOPUP,'LR','UR');" href="javascript:void(0)">Request Connection</a>
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If you want just a connection request URL then please use the following.
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index.php?option=com_comprofiler&Itemid=2&act=connections&task=addConnection&connectionid=[user_id]
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