I have CB 1.0.2 cblogin installed at idiawebdesign.com. It was brought to my attention that AOL users were nto receiving confirmation email or I forgot my password emails.

I deduced the problem to be with my server because I tried again with turning all spam control off on AOL and then also testing from another server with cblogin installed and AOL mail went through fine.

My host says this:
Sorry, all major mail providers have toughened their anti spam rules.
I strongly recommend you do not use forwarders or form sending scripts to send
mail to AOL, Comcast, Yahoo etc.

Because of such scripts all our users and all servers experience constant
problems with major mail providers.

Thank you for your understanding.

Does this mean I can't use their hosting with joomla at all? I dont get them and they are being somewhat unresponsive.