Hi - you were right - it is the Joomla ACL which blocks the deletion for users who are not logged in BUT ... I still have no clue how to fix it. But let me explain step by step what happens when a users decides to delete his own profile:
1. As soon as a logged in user decides to delete his own profile the following window appears, where the user has to enter the reason for the deletion:
.... at the page heading you see that the String '/blocked-users' is part of this URL /** this will become important later **/
2. Now the user gets a confirmation (screen) which looks like this
/** here again the string '/blocked-users' is part of the URL **/
3. Now the user opens his mailbox in order to click onto the confirmation link
/** here again the string '/blocked-users' is part of the confirmation link **/
4. Now the uers tries to click onto this confirmation link but it will not work because I also have a menu item called 'My blocked users' and this menu item shall only be visible for users who are logged in:
... as soon as the user is logged in, the URL part '/blocked-users' is 'accessible' and the profile will be deleted
..... So the good news is that reason for this behaviour on my website is explainable.... but at the moment I don't know how to fix it, because the menu item 'My blocked uers' is not allowed to be public on my website
regards